You Never Think It’s Going To Happen To You

You Never Think It’s Going To Happen To You


Until It does…

I certainly didn’t. When it did, I didn’t fully understand what it truly meant. Hearing the words “you have cancer” is an experience that can’t be appreciated through someone else’s words. Although the terms used to frame the feelings are all very, very similar:  “I stopped listening,” “It felt like a punch in the gut,” and “the world stopped.” All of those (and more) are true. Then for others, it’s a whole other level of nightmare. It may not come for years; it may never come at all. I, however, unknowingly woke up one hot August morning in 2013 and became one of the 6-10% that find themselves in that unholy nightmare of Metastatic Breast Cancer.


The median lifespan for Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC) is still currently 18-36 months. There have been many new advances in medications for specific genetic mutations and pathologies, but there is still a very long way to go. 42,690 men and women are expected to die in 2020 from Metastatic Breast Cancer. In comparison, 40,566 women died from MBC in 1989.

So, what can be done? There is so much that can be done, and it starts with the person looking back at you in the mirror. Share your story. Share a friend’s story. Choose NOT to buy something PINK. Get to know The Cancer Couch, Hold a fundraiser, or Check out

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